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Originally Posted by ThaVirus
Unfortunately I have to agree with DaKCMan but I'm a bit torn. On the one hand, I know chicks don't like boring dudes but on the other, you're being yourself and I think that's probably the most important thing.
One thing I'll say, if I may, don't talk about serious shit like that the first go 'round. If the chick is in med school, the last thing she wants to talk about is med school. I'd reserve those kinds of discussions for once you're familiar with each other and are looking to find out what's under the surface.
That's just my opinion, though.
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I agree with this. I think you've got to be yourself.
One thing I would recommend is to keep your texts short and snappy to begin with. Large text blocks are boring (and this kills me to say, because I'm an English major) and convey the message that you might be trying too hard.
And I probably wouldn't send the "sex in a med school" thing either via text. I'd say it in real life, but I'd be able to make it come off as funny/ironic/ridiculous in real life. Not so easy to do in a text.