[Pushead2]

Met a girl off of match and it was going well for a couple months, but then it just seemed - off.

I was in similar situation when I was younger. So I followed the advice I didn't take the first time around & cornered her with "what's the deal and where do we stand?". She gave me the ole' it's me not you because she decided that she didn't want to seriously date anyone.

The first time, when I didn't take the advice, the girl was seeing me but was trying to get someone else (didn't figure it out until after the fact). I was too afraid of asking her because I was loving the little I received from her. She ended up getting with him eventually and it hurt a bit. That's why I confronted this chick, she said what she had to say to me and then posts a pic of her and a guy on her IG a few days later.

It sucks but it's true. If you're not firing on all cylinders for a girl, you're just wasting your time. Any time I feel I'm not getting "all" her attention, she's probably got something else going too - so I'm out. A bunch of my buddies (guys & girls) feel that she's going to end up hitting me up but I'm over it.

Always trust your gut instincts.