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Originally Posted by keg in kc
Some guys just aren't that guy. Everybody's different and some people just aren't wired that way. It's not like you can go out and buy a bottle of "change your entire being". If somebody needs real psychological help, no amount of "exercising, socializing and self-improvement" is actually going to 'fix' whatever's really wrong with them. Not that they shouldn't do those things, but without addressing the real core issues that make them the person they are, it'll just be a bi-polar roller-coaster.
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I don't disagree with you. Some people have issues. Discuss has severe self-esteem issues. I also realize that his issues are what drive his attitude. What I was responding to, however, is the notion that if you're not good looking, don't bother because you'll never succeed with females. While I have no experience relating to that circumstance, I have perceived confidence, among other things, to be of more importance to a woman than mere looks.