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Originally Posted by ThaVirus
This may be correct. Some people just aren't fit to be parents.
I'm just always hesitant to throw children in the state system. I'm sure there are tons of success stories but just as many that don't work out. In the system, like at home, for many of these kids they just because a case number or they're moved around from home to home or they're constantly probed by adopting families. I couldn't imagine the letdown of meeting prospective adopting families only to be told they decided to go with a different child or something like that.
Once again, in this situation you might be right. I just wish it could be taken care of at home instead.
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I agree, and while I have no personal experience with state systems for kids like this, its certainly not hard to imagine some of them being cold and impersonal, doing atleast as much harm as good... especially in city areas where the system can become overwhelmed by sheer numbers.
But yeah, in many cases its almost certainly criminal to leave them
with their parents.