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Originally Posted by Demonpenz
It takes time and it takes actually knowing that change is hard. I will say earlier in the thread that sometimes jobs suck so bad you just need to get out of there before you waste too much of your life there. If you are in tears everyday it is time to get out of there. The one mistake I make is taking a job too quickly because of the fear of not being able to pay bills. You got to make a smart choice when choosing a job or you will end up in the same situation. As with anything in life...if you count on your job, your family, your spouse, money, sex, sports, if you count on anything other than yourself for happiness you are going to be ****ed. Hitch your wagon to finding inner peace or helping others or religion or something more stable than material and other bullshit.
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Originally Posted by Demonpenz
I had to go to the hospital last year and that wiped me out. So that was a bummer, but the good thing is I already had some character traits to get back on the horse and start saving again.
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Great posts. Your first post, that is arguably my biggest fear, would be to lose my job and panic and take the first thing I found and not wait for the right fit. I would feel like a bum not having a job, and I feel like I would want to take something quickly and it would hurt me money wise. On your second post that is a fear that piggy backs on my first fear, if something happens you cant control and it wipes your money out, there isn't much to do, but start over. That would suck.