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Red, thanks. Really. I have read and re-read the thread. I am glad for the input. I haven't gone thru the process...yet. Prolly will be in May. We have to keep up the appreances until her parents come and go in May. Son will be gone then too. What sucks, is she is prolly my best friend but I don't want to be celibate for the next 20 yrs. She has no romantic bone in her body (see jokes coming on that). Just sad.
I won't ever get married again..not at my age. Why? I can see us 5 yrs down the road, where she comes over to visit, and she will and always have a place to shack up, spare bedroom...whilst I and a girl friend have the master.
I am trying to be patient. She is too. We both know the end result, but we don't have to rush. We are looking at using the same attorney and neiher one wants a pissing contest.
Really in the end = sad. But we both have two wonderful kids. Can't ask for more then that.
I can't say how much you all, CP have helped me. There will be a time when the trigger will be pulled. But timing is everything.
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