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It's pretty simple. Play a game that both of you enjoy (cards, board game, whatever) and make articles of clothing the stakes. Each round or hand you both put in an article of clothing. Winner takes both items. Or if you want to draw it out use two or three markers, players decide whether to use markers or articles of clothing each round. The loser is the person who runs out of markers and clothing first, winner gets to have their way with the loser. Make a lot of suggestive comments during the game and she'll throw it just to see what you'll do when you win. When you win go to the bedroom, dim the lights, tie her to the bed and use your only your hands on her until she has finished at least a couple of times, do it enough to get her to start tiring out. And then just keep going with whatever "moves" you have in your playbook. Make an evening of it. If you do it well she'll take it as a challenge to make this part of your regular routine and come up with her own ideas of what to do when she decides to win.