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Imagine the circumstances that happen every day without such financial incentives. Unfortunately it’s very complicated. I haven’t read through this thread yet or heard the whole thing but based on what little I have seen of the recording, he doesn’t really seem to think he is abusive or excessive.
He sees respect and obedience without concern for if that’s reality or not and also without concern of the methods of getting it. He also likely doesn’t have a good grasp of what respect and healthy authority looks like. These actions of discipline aren’t things he thinks about with regards to pros and cons and then does it. He probably perceives disobedience or disagreement in many forms as disrespect to him personally and reacts with emotions of anger without thought. At the very least he should have been doing some relationship counseling and parenting classes for some time now if he wasn’t.
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