My point of view. I lost my dad when I was 24 and my mom when I was 33. I was never close with any aunts/uncles. Having 2 brothers gave me a sense of connection in the world. Just a feeling that I wasn't alone. I wasn't going through those losses alone. I have 2 kids and try to foster that relationship as much as I can.
Financial and genetic issues are totally valid reasons to stay with one though.
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