[lewdog]

Originally Posted by Coach

Having lost my father two weeks ago, we were very fortunate that we did not have any issues between us siblings (there were 3 of us). We all have an agreement prior to going through his stuff that, if more than one of us liked a item, we set that aside and come back to it later since it had a sentimental value to either 2 or all of us.

Once we got through the easy stuff, then we went back to that pile (which was like 7 items), and we were able to work it out without any issue at all. For example, there were 2 things that I liked, but my brother did as well (sister didn't care much for it), so I said to him that "Ok, you pick which one you want, and I'll take the other one." Easy. So we were fortunate we did not experience that at all.

Sorry to hear about your father's passing. I'm glad you guys were able to act like adults afterwards. That can be just as challenging as grieving for many.