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Originally Posted by Chiefspants
Had a GF for 3 years. It was clearly over for the last year, but in that stretch her and I both broke up with each other at different points but got back together due to familiarity alone. We finally got back together one last time and decided we either needed to get married or break up. In the end, breaking up was definitely one of the harder things I've had to go through -- but it was worth it.
Met my wife 2 years after that, and it was clear from a couple months in that she was the one. But had I convinced myself to stay with my ex (a relationship likely ending in divorce), I never would have met my wife.
Lean into those feelings. It's all a part of the process and it's completely okay and natural you feel this way -- you are making a huge transition in your life and it's natural it'll take time to adjust. You got this. Weirdly a lot of angry posting about the Chiefs here seemed to be an outlet at that time and the Chiefs were more than happy to help with their playoff loss against the Colts 
In all seriousness, writing, getting outside, and trying a new routine helped, too -- but everyone is different and have to get through this in different ways -- stay strong, my dude! |
Sounds just like my story.
OP will rebound into something better for him.