If you're going to kick him out you should understand that this ending well for him is unlikely. And you have to be ok with that.
He's not going to get kicked out and all of a sudden grow up and stop being a shit head. If anything he'll get heavier into weed/booze etc, resent you and his mother (mostly you) and maybe spiral further out of control.
He'll likely only be somewhat out of your life. He'll complain about how ya'll dont love him, how this is ya'll's fault, he'll guilt trip you and call you to bail him out everytime he puts himself in a ****ed situation.
So while he'll be out of the house and you don't have to deal with him on a daily basis, you're really just trading one se of problems for another.
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