The contract is a good idea. You have to set boundaries and enforce them when crossed.
“we talked about this and came to an agreement and now you’re breaking that agreement so this is the consequence”
In the end you can’t be codependent and enable. I know that’s hard, especially for your wife, but it’s true. You are not responsible for him at this point and neither is your wife. He has choices to make.
Let him choose
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Mike Greenberg@Espngreeny
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