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All is forgiven. when my kids were 6 and 3, I had my own brush with cancer. Thankfully for me, I got mine diagnosed at stage 1 and so far it hasn't come back.
But those were some dark days for me and my family. Not knowing...just waiting for biopsy results for 3 weeks when they said 10 days. Wondering if your kids would remember you and knowing they probably wouldn't. Even after getting the great news that it hadn't spread, just dealing with surgery and more biopsies and the fear of it returning... All of that was enough to **** me up mentally for a while... I was distant, I couldn't talk to people about it, I couldn't focus....
And that was just stage 1..(easy mode). I couldn't have handled more at that time.
So a big hug to you and im sorry you're dealing with this. I've lost other loved ones to cancer as well. It's just a horrible disease. PM me if you ever want to talk or hit me on the discord.
we family
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