I caught me a single mom 10 years ago and we're still together. We were both coming out of divorces and weren't expecting much. But she and I worked so we made it work for the kids too.
But I totally see why someone might want to stay away from the situation. I was certainly iffy about it initially, but ultimately I could see myself with her for a long time, so I learned how to be there for the kids too.
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