Ithink its fixed!!
http://www.iup.edu/house/resnet/WinsockXPFix.exe
i dled that program, someone mentioned how using adaware and shit takes away registry shit and that restores the orig. keys to the cpu, so i think my tcp/ip winsock was ****ed up the whole time, the net is hauling major ass, as in browsing now, its always DL'ed blazing, score!!