I raised both my kids. My ex-wife was up to 25k in back child support, Jackson County court is a joke, very biased in my opinion. My lawyer told me that if I were that far behind I would have been jailed and drivers liscense revoked. My ex however was allowed to keep nursing licsense, driving licsense and freedom. Such is life I supposed, but still sucks.
As karma dictates, she remarried a real loser.