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Originally Posted by wutamess
After reading this...
Just lay off the compliments and telling her your feelings for a while. If she starts talking flirtatious change the subject to something else.
That lets her know:
1. You don't just wanna bang the chit out of her.
2. Sex isn't the only thing on your mind.
3. You're not that hard up for sex.
4. She can hang out with you without you trying to hump her all the damn time.
Here's the kicker though if she starts giving you too many flirtations then she may just want to  anyway.
It's a fine balance between hard ass & being too pushoffish. Be yourself... change the subject when sex/flirting arises. Hopefully (if that's what you want) We'll be having a "she said yes" thread in a year or so.
congrats on the catch. |
True, but to a point. You don't want to give the impression that you're an asexual eunuch. I'd definitely recommend keeping the compliments to a minimum, though, if you want to avoid looking desperate and pathetic.