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Originally Posted by ChiefsCountry
Mistake #1 - you moved in together. Dumb, dumb, dumb. That was just asking for something like this.
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eh, I'd disagree with that. I believe that you can't truly know if you wanna be with someone unless you've lived with that person. remember, the things that are 'cute' about a person six months into a relationship turn into your major psychotic hatreds later on down the line. people are different in public than they are in private, and living with someone can allow you to get to know the person when it's all hanging out so to speak.
I realize it doesn't always work like that, but I lived with my fiance/girlfriend for 2.5 years prior to our wedding (we got married a few weeks ago), and our living together was a smooth transition into married life. nothing changed except for the officiality of it.