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Originally Posted by Ari Chi3fs
I just got this comment from a post on controlling personality on my blog and I wanted to share it with you guys, and I'm going to message the guy offline. He seems pretty distressed.
http://cultivategreatness.com/2006/1...out-of-control
What advice would you have for this guy?
"I have been Marrried for 13 years and my Wife i a control freak, she tells me what i can and cant do and if i do the opposite she makes me fell inferior which pisses me off and we end up in a dispute we have 12 grand in the bank i take out 20 dollars and i get my ass chewed but she can spend what ever she wants without any questions, i sit in a chair tha squeaks she throughs a fit, I talk I get told to shut up, I can not take ita anymore i am a step father to two children and cant stand to leave her because of them but i feel like i am in a prison what can I do to help her change oh by the way she does nothing wrong ever and she is alays right about everything so you cant tell her she is in the wrong Help!!!!!!!!!!"
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any insight?
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Who knows what happened to this dude to make him so subserviant like this. He just needs to speak his mind, tell her exactly what he wants and doesn't want from this relationship, and if she blows up at him for speaking his mind, they need to have a trial seperation. It sounds like he's waiting around, waiting for her to change her ways and realize that he's a better guy than she's giving him credit for. Ain't gonna happen.