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Whoever said that being yourself around women is a horrible idea, unless you have a charming personality. I am quite a vile, offensive, and opinionated person. I honestly don't think any of my friends girlfriends like me at all because they think I'm a bad influence. I'm the single guy still pressuring them to live the bachelor lifestyle...go to the strip club, the bars till close, gamble their money away at the casino, and skip church to ****ed up at the golf course. If I was smart, I'd act totally different around them so they would tell their friends how great of a guy I am. But it's hard to be fake for so long, especially around my guy friends.
I don't claim to know anything about relationships, because I don't. Women will never put up my lackadaisical attitude and reluctance of commitment. One thing I have noticed through trial and error is that you pretty much want to treat a woman in the exact opposite way of what you are trying to achieve. If I actually care about a woman, I'll be nicer to them. Call them to talk even sometimes, and just treat them overall better. For some reason, it takes much longer to score when doing so. I think it is because you've set the expectation early that you aren't a sexual threat and are more of a friend figure. You can settle into that role, but it will just take longer. If you make it known with playful sexual innuendo and a lack of care about what they have to say you stand a chance to score in the short term.
If you are talking about long term then I really have no idea. Someone needs to give me pointers because I don't know where to start.
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