SR, I think you should take some time now for introspection. Get to know yourself, find the real you. Buy a yoga mat and a Ravi Shankar cd. Spend a day at the spa - get a massage, a facial and a pedicure. Take an afternoon at a teahouse with a good friend. Go for a long walk in the woods. Drink hazelnut coffee on the patio in the morning. Attend a gallery opening. Relax in a bubble bath with a romance novel, a box of chocolates, a bottle of tequila rose, a jar of apricot preserves and a jar of baby oil. Treat yourself to a "movie marathon" porn night, complete with popcorn and [I]lots[I] of extra butter.
Just remember, the ladies won't love you until you learn to love yourself. You'll know when you're ready.
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