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Originally Posted by damaticous
welcome to the real world of g-friends and their daughters and sons.
I'm in the same boat. Doesn't matter what u do. It's a loose-loose situation.
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I dunno, man. I've been there. (trust me...

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But I think she's right this time.
When you both have a kid (or kids) it's just more issues and more people who might not get along. And when it comes down to it, human nature says you side with your own.
I dated a girl who had a son for a long while. His rules were different than my boy's rules. (because "he was used to being spoiled") Tough to explain that to your own kids. They ask how it's fair, and you can't answer... because you know deep down that it isn't.
Anyway, best of luck to you BCD. It's tough to get two personalities to mesh, let alone two families.