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Originally Posted by Iowanian
It may not solve anything. Its a reaction.
You're married. Put yourself in that situation. The Dude just knocked on your door. You going to fix him a drink and pull out the checker board?
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It's not black and white, though. You don't have to roll over like a whipped dog.
If the guy actually had the gumption to come and tell you that, it would be pretty surprising.
Of course, you'd be irate. My first reaction would be to toss out a suitcase and tell her she's got 15 minutes to pack.
My second reaction would be to tell the guy you never want to see or hear from him again.
Why let the woman manipulate you even more by going to blows with some dude over it? She already cuckolded you. **** her (figuratively).
I think the most devastating thing to do in that situation would be to tell them both, "Well, your desired partner is someone who can't keep their wedding vows. What a winner you are."
I think that would sting longer than any shit kicking.