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I actually have dated since I was divorced, I just don't talk about it. I have a persona on here that I enjoy maintaining.
And yes, I have been cheated on, which I think gives me a little insight into this.
I don't think anybody would argue that the person outside the relationship isn't 'insulting' it in some way - all I'm saying is that the primary responsibility should be on the head of person involved in the relationship who cheated. They're not a victim, and are in my eyes, by far the most wrong. Which isn't absolving the third party, who've also committed a wrong.
But for some reason, it seems to me that the people in the relationships are held less to account than the people outside of it. People actually take back spouses, which just blows my mind.
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