Thread: Life Confronting a cheater
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Old 02-17-2009, 02:17 AM   #144
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Originally Posted by 'Hamas' Jenkins View Post
That's a completely preposterous analogy that has absolutely no bearing on this situation whatsoever.

The third person isn't married to you. They have no loyalty to you, or anyone else in your family. The person who is cheating on you, does. A spouse who is going to cheat on you is going to do it with someone. With whom they do it is irrelevant.

Who is the one performing the betrayal here?
That's a good point, too.

I thought at first it was the typical "I've been wronged, I'm gonna kick his ass" testosterone-fueled reaction, but what I think I'm seeing here now is a 'women as victim' mentality, that the wives somehow aren't responsible for their own actions. Bad guys are tricking good girls into doing bad things that they don't really want to do.

Whereas I think women who cheat on their husbands know exactly what they're doing, and if it wasn't one guy it would be another. I don't think they're victims, and I don't think it's accidents. People don't just trip and fall into bed together.

Or if they do, I'm going to wrong parties.
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