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Originally Posted by Saccogoo

You think so? Then you tell me why someone, specifically a woman, would cheat on a spouse? Because, as Mecca said, her husband works and she's lonely? And she thinks that an affair is going to fix that situation? Bullshit. She's doing it for the attention, both mental and physical. She wants to be made to feel attractive. If she was pissed at her husband about not paying attention to her, it's a hell of a lot less traumatic for everyone involved just to talk to the husband and tell him how she feels rather than going out and having sex with some schmuck. No, she is not cheating because she is in this pit of escapable despair and misery. If that's the case, she gets the divorce. But she's not getting the divorce. She's just going out and getting a piece of strange to make herself feel sexy and wanted and then going back home to her husband. She's also probably a dopamine junkie and uses the illicit sexual affair to get that big release of it for the adrenaline rush.

So, unless you can provide a bit more insight into your perceptions of this other than "stupid generalization," your provided opinion on the matter doesn't amount to jack squat.

As far as you go Mecca, to say that my assessment was stupid based on your association with an affair that was initiated because the husband "worked all the time" is even more idiotic. Her decision to have sex with you and your decision to have sex with a married woman based on the sole reason of "because the guy worked all the time" is the only thing that is stupid here. He works a lot, so of course the wife is obviously needing to go out and suck on some dudes pecker to solve that horrendous problem of having her husband work too much? Yeah, that makes sense.

Pretty much.