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Originally Posted by Katipan
You can split hairs with me all you want, the basis of your tirade was that we adultress women wanted STRANGE attention from anyone besides our Sweet Charming Prince at home.
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The basis for my comments is that women cheat because they desire attention, both physical and mental. I never said anything about "strange." And I'm sure that they like the attention from their spouse/SO. But they also want to be made to feel wanted, loved, attractive, intelligent, etc. from others as well. I'm talking about base human genetics. And also individual chemical makeup. Most mammals are not monogamous. Approximately 90% in actuality. Some are though. This is primarily determined by the presence of a certain chemical in the brain that is secreted when the mammal (human or otherwise - this chemical was first noticed in the north american vole mouse and later found in humans as well) is around their mate of choice. Non-monogamous mammals do not secrete this chemical in any significant amount, but monogamous ones do. A lot of it. As well, the brain secretes a significant amount of dopamine during sexual intercourse. Even more in illicit affairs. Same stuff that is excreted in sky diving, bungee jumping, etc. And it's highly addictive.
There is a lot of factors, but yes, it does have to do with attention. Physical, mental, emotional attention. And what chemicals that are secreted in the brain as it relates to that attention. That was the basis for my tirade. And you have not refuted that one bit.