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Originally Posted by Jilly
I wonder why it is that so many women are not self confident and don't have self esteem? So much so that katipan or I would include myself are the exception to your rules?
Seems perhaps if you're the parent of a daughter, you might wonder about this?
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I think it's because I like looking at women.
Really.
I think I'm not nuts in that way because when I see a pretty girl, I think "Oh wow, pretty girl." Like her asthetic beauty is art. Not competition. Her "value" has nothing to do with mine.
I find myself competing far more with men than I do with women.
Plus, honestly. How we look is the one thing we can't control. Maybe some adjustments, but ultimately you don't get to control what you look like. I'd much rather walk into a room and have the boys come running because I'm loads of fun to be around.
I don't know why you're not nuts that way, but I like it!