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Originally Posted by Iowanian
This is a sweet moment. great, great resources too.
Budda, stop posting. Go to the HOC and read every thread with the word "girl" in the title by RoyIII and gochiefs.
Then return.
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Okay. I need to go study anyway, too.
The best advice I heard is to stop thinking. I try not to, but I still do. But the more you think, the more you psych yourself out. And usually what people think about when they're approaching someone isn't positive. More thoughts = more fear = more chance of rejection. Its kinda like that crappy advice of "be yourself."
That, and don't focus on yourself and what you're doing, what's wrong with you, etc. Focus on the other person instead. Kind of the same advice. Now if I can only listen to it.