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Originally Posted by The Buddha
She also told me she has a video of her with another girl... I don't know if I believe her, but her friends seemed to know about it too.
Truthfully, as a psych minor, she seems super insecure and overcompensating by giving guys sexual attention.
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This is what 95% of women do. Here's a basic rule of psychology that will never steer you wrong in any type of relationship:
What people want more than anything is to feel important. If you find out what makes a person feel important, you can extrapolate a lot of other information. For example, if a person feels most important when they do charitable work, spend time with their family, or earn their Master's degree, that person is probably a lot different than someone who feels important by sleeping with a lot of people, bragging about material items, or being rude to a waitress.
If you want to control a situation, do something to make the other person feel important. Then, withhold it.
In doing so, you first establish that you have the ability to give that feeling of importance, then you train the person to act in a certain way in order to get you to validate them further. This is more difficult in professional interactions than it is in dealing with some 19 year old girl with no self-esteem.
You've already made her feel important by asking her out, listening to her slutty stories, etc. Now just dial it way back and make her work harder each time she tries to gain your approval. In a week, she'll be begging for your attention. The problem is, you'll be sick of her in a month, and that will just make her want you more.