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Originally Posted by frazod
It is what it is. God knows lots of other people had worse. To his credit, he never abused me, I never saw him drunk, when I lived with my mom he never missed a child support payment, and when I lived with him I had everything I needed. He honorably fulfilled his contract; I'll give him that.
But somehow I think a shitty parent who at least cares would probably be better in the long run than a solid earner who doesn't.
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This is kinda true, my dad at the time was a lost ****ing cause. He payed his child support, but that was the only ****ing support i had from him. I think i went like 3-4 years as a kid without even see'ing him. Now go figure he lives around me and recently turned his life around. He kinda had too though. If not, he was going to prison for a few years and he said he's to old for that. I was like ****ing really? i dont hate him or anything, but it is what it is.
Moms on the other hand, i was a momma's boy, i can admit it. S he did everything she could for me. She worked her ass of in life and still does, but she likes it. That women can never ever stay still. I did wish at times growing up she cared a little less. It kind of ****ed me up i think, but she had a really rough upbringing and it hink she was to much into mine and my sisters business because her mom died when she was like 12 years old.
Life is strange so different for so many people. I just take it is, this is how it was meant to be and move on.