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Originally Posted by keg in kc
I agree with you up to a point, although, on the other hand, I'm not sure that "attachment" (aka "meaningful sex") is necessarily a bad thing. As long as you attach first, and then have sex. The problem is when the sex comes early and the attachment grows out of it. And if you go too far the other way, sex becomes an animal act devoid of intimacy.
Not really an easy answer here.
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Sex should never be the basis for a long term relationship, IMO. It always gets old and stale after a while anyway. A 25 year old that gets his cherry popped at that age might get unhealthily attached to the person and be damaged for a long time if that relationship doesn't work out. In the end, though, it all depends on the person, I guess, these are just the trends that I've read about.