[Jilly]

Originally Posted by Saccogoo

No, it's you living in a black and white world where it's okay for a guy to do anything to a woman and just expect that she'll like it because, well, it's you, and you are a guy, and well, she's a woman. I understand there are some psychological differences in the thought processes between a man and a woman based on biological differences. I also understand that there are mutually agreed upon sexual acts that go beyond the "normalized" sexual understandings. However, I was simply commenting on the growing references in US culture to "buttsecks!," as it relates to peoples perceptions of this as an accepted and normalized sexual act.

There is a growing concern with numerous sociologists, sex researchers, psychologists, etc., about the effects of the ever increasing access and participation in such "taboo" sexual acts, particularly as perceived by the younger generations who have the potential to normalize such acts due to their burgeoning prevalence on internet pornography sites.

I live in a world of grey. Jean Dixon would define my aura as "pewter." You need to be a bit more perceptive my friend.

It actually makes a lot of sense. As long as people are making informed, nonforced, choices, I totally agree.