1st, thanks to your daughter-in-law for her service.

2nd congrats on your sons up coming service

3rd At least you are not a RedNeckDonkey fan
I lived with Ms. Luke for 10years. We were married in Las Vegas. Her father was my best man. He passsed away that year, but I am sure he was honored.
I consider being a pall bearer and part of a wedding party an honor myself.