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Originally Posted by Jilly
yes....I mean, I know it seems like I'm throwing out excuses left and right and I am...but I feel like they're legitimate. If I go at that time, that's the only real husband time I have. When I get home from work, I spend time cooking cleaning, and playing with baby girl...then getting her to bed....seems that one hour before we go to bed is the only time we have to really be together or talk or both??? I know I need to sacrfice something, just trying to be a good mom and a good wife and a good minister. Which is the other thing....I often have meetings at night that start at 7pm and don't get home til 9:30 or so....so if it's a week when I have a meeting, then volleyball, then youth group, that gives me two weeknights free? UGH, it seems impossible.
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It looks like maybe your hubby will have to take up some of the slack.
I only get six hours of sleep a night. I spend the evenings with my two kids, then my youngest goes to sleep. My oldest and I go to the gym.
I spend a couple hours with my wife at night and try to be asleep by Midnight. Then, I get up at 6:00am to go do my cardio.
I find that even with less sleep, I am much more energetic and I don't get sleepy after lunch.
Take my post as nothing more than encouragement. I am not trying to bully you into it....
I am also married. I also work in the church. I teach large group in the children's department. I sing in the choir, I do stand up comedy, and I am in the drama department.
It is a lot to juggle.... but you have only one life.... well on this side anyways. I just try to live mine with as few regrets as possible.