Just do everything all slow and dramatic ... think of some movie love scene type situation.
put some romantic type music on (not nine inch nails "i wanna **** you" or anything)
put you hands up to her face gently and then stare into her eyes. Then slowly kiss her cheek. give her a smile and then kiss her and hold it ... just hold you lips against hers for awhile.
remember ... slow and steady.
hug her, cuddle her a little
BEFORE the deed.
stand up and then slowly pull your shirt off as you stare into her eyes then kneel down and lay your head in her lap. It will trigger her nurture instinct.
run your fingers through her hair and just play with it for awhile ... maybe lightly blow on the back of her neck.
kiss her closed eyelids
slow,dramatic and passionate ... movie style
no doggie style, no grunting and groaning and dripping sweat on her. No superman or donkey punch.
