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If your main goal is to get into her pants, then my advice to you is to drop her, and look for one that has the mindset of getting laid. It seems like this girl does not have that mindset.
No use in faking. Sooner or later its going to show. She'll find out whether you are real or not. Trust me, it'll catch up to you, I've been there, and women hate fakes. Be a good guy. Love is something you shouldn't fake. Don't toy with a persons mind. Obviously this girl is looking for romance, for a lover, a special friend. If you feel that you can't give that to her, then there is no use in dating her.
Love is something that should come straight from the heart with great feeling and passion. And if you're not feeling it from your heart, drop her.
Unless, you have the mindset where you are looking for romance? and tell her you want to take things slow, get to know her more, and see how things go? If shes gives you the impression that she is the type of person for you, and you feel she is capable for you to give her your love, then by all means go by that approach.
I think it's important to remember that both you and her should be on the same page, and if that is so, pursue, if not, then don't pursue. This is where chemistry comes in, and it always prevails in the end. The power of Chemistry, yes.
*My apologies for being negative, and for providing you with words of discouragement. But in case situation like this, the appropriate thing to do is to be sensible. Good luck to you anyway.
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