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You want to make love to her? Have her come over to your place, set yourself up with a couple rack o' pounders (16 oz. cans), a pizza and a fist full of porn. Sit her down, look deep into her eyes and tell her that while she has expressed the "I love you sentiment.", you don't feel that way about her, think it would be best for her from a long term perspective to move on. She leaves, you have a pizza, get drunk, jerk it, and fall asleep happy. It's a win/win for everyone.
Case in point, I was dating a girl who at one point asked me to tell her that I loved her, even though she knew I didn't just so she could hear the words from me. I broke up with her that night, because I knew I would never get to that point with her from an emotional honesty perspective. She's now in a very happy long term relationship with a good guy, and I don't have to deal with her goofy little idiosyncrasies that were never going to truly let me love her. Like I said, win/win.
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