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Originally Posted by Detoxing
The odds are pretty damn good that this home is already broken. you don't know what her relationship is. You dont know if her husband is a dick wad that treats her like shit or doesn't pay any attention to her. If someone goes out and cheats, they usually have a good reason.
There is no need to act like we know they have some sort of "Leave it to Beaver" scenario here. How do we know this husband isn't some drunk asshole who spends countless nights at the bar and doesn't come home till 4 am? Or that he doesn't have a plethora of excuses as to why he's 3 hours late from work everynight.
And I doubt this is her first time doing something like this. If she's coming on that strong then she's probably pulled this card before. This is what SHE wants. Dont think for her.
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You don't know either. You're just rationalizing in order to justify your lack of conscience. No matter what shape the home is in now, this isn't likely to do anything but make it worse. I know, based on what you've said here, that your childhood was pretty f'ed up, but that's no reason to have no conscience about having a hand in visiting a shitty childhood on other kids or on other families.