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Sorry man but it sounds like there may be seem deeper issues about commitment.
You are essentially 1/2 of a whole unit now and if the money is being divided like roomates, then it seems to me that deep down neither of you see's your marriage as a union of 2 to make 1.
Most people I know who do the roommate routine with money don't have a stable marriage or in a few cases, have divorced.
If this is your partner for life, then I'd advise both of you to stop seeing finances as "his" and "hers" but rather "ours".
Just my .02 cents.
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As always, this is IMO.
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