you guys are running your marriage like it is a corporation and you are bickering about whos department contributes more and therefore should get more. That is not a good way to have it arranged. You can't "keep score" in a marriage, it doesn't work that way. Remember for better or for worse? You two are supposed to be a family unit working as one. We put our money (I pretty much make 95% of it) into a checking account and a savings account. Invest a little, and when all the bills are paid, if there is much left, do something fun or talk about what one of us wants or needs. If you guys cant agree on this sort of stuff, there are bigger issues than who makes what
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