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Quite honestly I don't think we ever talked about having separate finances or any of that. It never occurred to either of us.
I think the first paycheck I made I came home with it and said "look at our money" which we then cashed and spent together. It all seemed so natural.
I look at these couples with separate finances and I wonder how they even got in that position in the first place...
In fact, If I place myself in Huffmans position right now and the very first thing that occurs to me is to give my wife as much money as possible to pay off her credit debt... the second thing that occurs to me is the best option which is sort the debt by APR and pay them off in that order while making the minimum payments on all the others. Either way it doesn't matter who's debt it is because there is no such thing, it's ours.
ps, thanks for making me feel good about my marraige. I'll probably show my wife this thread later.
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