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Originally Posted by noswad
while you still could, or would you leave a letter detailing who should get what?
wouldn't it mean more when still able to visit about said things?
Just curious...
what would you do...
How would you feel if you were a receivee?
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Pam,
Yes, it's a good thing to do. But if there are jealous family members, you get to see, hear them fight, etc. That part is ugly, it's sad but there are time this happens. Sometimes that happens after a person is gone, so take your pick.
I'm sadden to hear that you have gotten this far, I too feel your pain with Carrie. She is still holding on, but for how long, I don't know.She heads back to the doctors today at 3:30, they are amazed that she not only lived past the 19 months, but the 6 year law of averages when once diagnosed with her disease.She has lived life her way, done things her way without regard of what she want to do, like the song, Live life like you are dying. We Have been making arraignments for her, she wants all things done and settled before her time. With 4 kids & 9 grand kids, she is leaving a lot of certain things for each child.
Take care and May God Bless You, You have our thoughts and prayers.