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Yes, I would give people things. But I would also put it in writing. Your actions can greatly show your intentions, but a writing is legalistic, and also shows your intentions. Plus, perhaps you have already made promises, or have some will that you can't remember. I would just make sure to update the will or draft a new letter stating your intentions. It's better safe than having your relatives fighting over a lamp that you had allegedly promised, or written a letter about.
I have a written statement that indicates some of my items would go to specific people in the event of my death. I have written on the document my wish of the casket, donations, and things of that nature.
Are you doing Hospice, Pam, or heading down that road soon?
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