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Originally Posted by beach tribe
I'm really sorry to hear this bro. These things can be HARD. Whatever you do don't bitch up. Don't beg and whine. Be strong my friend.
Nice, but firm. Be accepting of the things she has said, but don't say you're gonna change.
Be self sufficient. Do not blow up her phone.
The more you try to pull her back to you, the further you will push her away. It's 50/50 right now IMO.
If it doesn't work out in the end. I'm really sorry, but we've all been there.
I know I wanted to die as I laid face first in the carpet for about a month, and carried the pain for what seemed like forever.
That taught me a lot, but I'm not going to lie. It still stings 9 years later. The wounds heal but the scars never go away.
I don't sweat it though......
cause my new GF is WAY HOTTER, and is into more of the same shit that I am.
Old GF used to give me shit about my Chiefs addiction. This GF buys me an Eric Berry jersey, and herself a little tight pink #7. Oh man I grab her by her ass, and throw he on the bed then I....*ahem*..... sorry.
Seriously though, its not the end of the world, even though it feels like it.
OK here comes the REALLY hard part. I'm not doing this to hurt you, but I know women.
99% chance she's met someone. And if you guys are under 25 like I think you are. This is probably the best thing that ever happened to you. If you were ready to break out the ring, her doing this now IS the best thing you could've hoped for. Live your life dude. By your own rules. Do what YOU want to do. Bang some strange.
And just as a word of advice, make sure you've survived something seriously straining, and came out of it stronger before you break out the finger cuff.
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She hasn't met anyone else.....we've always had honesty. I've left someone before because I was interested in someone else & I wasn't torn up one bit. With her she's hysterical crying, if there was another guy she would be hurt but not hysterical.
and today I feel good.....I feel a little bit better. I have a ton of friends & I have hockey buddies so I'll be keeping busy with that & finishing my degree.
So life will go on....