Well, it seems the kids name was Connor Hayward.
It also seems that her husband came to school, told her he was leaving her.
It further seems that she broke her back when she drove off the bridge.
Source: The completely anonymous comment section of the Pitch. (so not credible, but still worth noting).
http://blogs.pitch.com/plog/2011/03/...on_west_te.php
What ****ing cluster****.