You're a good dude, Iowanian. But you have to properly vet the recipients of your kindness or you're going to grown so bitter that more deserving people will not benefit from your kindness in the future. Don't do the work and bite your tongue... just walk away. When you've evaluated that the person doesn't actually need your help, walk. You think when you need help reaching something on the top shelf that one of those tall fat broads is going to come over and put you on her shoulders? No, she's not. Just walk.
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