Thread: Life I thought she was just a friend & she is married
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Old 01-11-2012, 09:16 PM   #74
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Originally Posted by JD10367 View Post
If you've really known her since you were 11 or 12, then you're already as good friend-wise as you'll ever be. And it's obvious that you're already attracated to her, care for her, probably love her, etc.,. So it's pretty simple: you tell the truth. You say, "You're very important to me. I think you're beautiful inside and out. And, frankly, pardon my bluntness but, if you weren't married, I'd have you naked in a heartbeat. But the simple fact is, I will not mess around with a(nother) married woman. Taking me out of the equation, frankly, if you think your marriage is so "over" that you're willing to cheat, then you probably shouldn't be married to him. And if you're single again some day, and I am, and things align, we can try it."

And then you go home and repeatedly while trying to tell yourself you did the right thing.
This. You should memorize this word for word and it will work like a charm.
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