[Amnorix]

Originally Posted by God of Thunder

Why? I'd rather her think all day she was going to get to see me tonight.....let's look at this.

A. She's going to get dressed up.....she knows I am NOT happy about what she did, so what better way for her to stick it to me, then to try and look all hot, when your EX wants you back....she's thinking i'll say "man, she looks good, wish I could take her home"

B. Even though this is just 'friends' for her.......I don't see how she can not have some sort of expectation or hope that it goes well when we were together almost 2 years. She may claim it's just friends, but I think deep down she's hoping to find/see something special.

C. After her repeated lies, over and over.....it's time she gets a little taste of her own medicine. If she gets excited and texts me during the day suggesting places, it'll build up her 'excitement' of seeing me, and then it comes crashing down at the end of the day.

D. 1 of 2 things will happen. If I blow her off to go to the game, she'll either 1. Get mad and not speak to me again (oh how sad) or 2. She'll think "damn, I really wanted to see him" and then she'll try harder.

E. IF she decides to try harder, then I will start to get what I want someday, and thats her trying to get me back, and the sad realization that she ****ed me over one too many times and now, she can't have me back.....which is the ultimate revenge.

You are spending waaaay too much time and energy thinking about this.

Originally Posted by Garcia Bronco

Just say you already have plans and don't offer up another time and date. And if she does; have plans then too.

Originally Posted by Rain Man

this is a perfect plan. listen to this man.

What they said. The faster you move on, the happier you will be. There is no satisfaction, no "winning", here. Just move on.